One of the common challenges guys face is that they meet a pretty girl that is exactly their type, they got her # and meet her 1-2 times thinking everything went well…
tried to get her out again but now she loses interest to respond to him or doesn’t feel like to meet him again.
Why did she lose interest and how can we reignite her interest in us? That’s what we will talk about today.
#1 Firstly understand: Using logic to explain women’s behaviors rarely work.
The only way to attract women is by making her FEEL certain emotions,
making her feel that you are a free, independent, confident, passionate man who loves himself and having fun in his reality.
So the first step is to EXAMINE how your previous behaviors might made her think that you are the beta provider guy.
Did you overinvest and try to do her favors like a frd?
Did you try to agree with her on stuff you disagree with just to be smooth and hope to get laid?
Were you too eager/enthusiastic/available to communicate/see her?
See how you fvcked up and you’ll notice the failure patterns.
#2 The second counterintuitive thing is to understand that you reignite her interest by putting yourself back as the center of your focus, instead of putting her as your focus.
Women want a guy who is passionate about his life,
who feels good about himself,
who is already having FUN enjoying his life,
who is actively pursuing things he loves to do,
who has a mission/purpose to dominate every day.
Most guys fvck up because once they start to get a woman, they stopped doing the things that made him attractive at the first place and started to focus all his attention on her.
Thus, in order to get her back, you must ensure your foundations are in place.
#3 Finally, you should have known this:
Women want to see you having other girls desiring you so that she can compete for you!
Women want to see you having other girls desiring you so that she can compete for you!
A big reason why you are so concerned with “a girl losing interest” is because you don’t have enough options.
Therefore, when you drop all the options you once had just for some girls you have just met for a few times, naturally your attractiveness will drop.
So stop limiting yourself with a scarcity mindset, explore the market and always make yourself an object of desire.
If you do just these 3 things, not only this girl but multiples girls will continue to DESIRE YOU!