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Oh manson,多謝你既見議，我會正視下呢個朋友，我諗我呢位朋友都係無心之失，但我都會提高自己既警覺性：）
咁Manson係過去兩三個月都讀過你部分既newletter，發現spark女人既attraction好容易，我成日認識新既女性，佢地都會對我產生好奇感，但我有差唔多半年時間都無sex。
一黎我無亂咁溝女，因為我想搵真係多方面合心意；
但係我認識既女仔之中好多都係對我產生好奇之後”收左皮”,我自己都諗過呢個問題，其實係因為我對過去半年認識既女性唔大attraction，所以無進展啊、定係我有D地方做得未夠好呢？
Manson我呢一刻已經好易係每個場合spark到attraction from girls，咁其實餘下時間點樣令佢地投資啦，
我本人唔太想新認識既女性，就個晚sex，我個人比較鍾意慢慢玩Game，令女人覺得有challenge，同埋比時間我了解一個人，Manson請問有咩建議比到我呢？
Mr. P
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#1 Well done on taking action to meet women and getting them attraction. However, remember the seduction process is always:
– Attention: no matter how and where you “open”/meet them
– Attraction: Get her attracted without being needy/creepy. Master push pull and play with tension. Be light, playful, challenging, blame them for liking me, flirting, keep on surface stuff.
– Connection: After you both are having FUN teasing each other, then you need to make her WANT to CONNECT with you.
You do this by asking yourself “Is she really the kind of girl I like?”
You need to have REAL STANDARDS of a girl’s non-physical traits and qualities; if you only want to fuck girls because she is hot, your low standards are only getting you the immature, average girls who lack substance.
When you have standards, you give her a chance to qualify/disqualify her, and let her WIN YOU OVER and get your approval.
– Isolate and Escalate physically and logistically.
Don’t seduce her in front of her friends/ social circle or crowded environment, because they don’t want to be seen as a slut.
If you don’t touch her or 天時地利人和 you two can’t get together, you can’t close the deal. You must LEAD and go first, be the cause and pull the fucking trigger.
Mr. P, if you can use the above framework to assess where you are, you WILL know what is missing in your seduction and what needs to be done next time 🙂