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Hi man神
我有個識左好多年嘅女仔，近呢一兩年大家熟左好多，平時會考日wts，有咩重要嘅事或者唔開心有野煩都會同對方講下當傾下苦咁。
有時仲會一齊出去街同埋佢會幫我慶祝生日。
有一次我隨口講話好耐無玩過啲野，跟手佢就買左比我做生日禮物。
我同佢嘅相處可以話幾close同好信任。
好多時我想買嘢比佢會問佢中意咩色，佢答完之後都唔會問我知黎做咩，佢話我問你都唔會講黎啦，你幫我話事得啦。
佢真係好信我……
其實佢兩年黎都知我鍾意佢嘅，直到上年嘅平安夜我同佢出完街送佢返屋企想同佢表白但當刻無講出口，過左一陣再叫佢落街先同佢講我鍾意佢，跟住佢叫我估下佢想講咩，但我話唔知唔想估。
之後過左一陣佢咩都無講大家deadair左，我就送左佢返屋企先。
果次之後佢就唔so我，一開始連msg都唔覆，
直到後來先覆返我message但都係問一句答一句返唔到去以前咁。從來都唔會主動搵返我。
直到最近我先意識到自己嘅問題，作為男仔我太懦弱太無主見，兩年黎我唔信佢一啲feel都無，
但偏偏我就咩都無做，可能因為咁我比唔到個肯定性同安全感比個女仔，佢應該對我幾失望。
以前成日都擔心個女仔係唔鍾意自己只係當fd，但諗深一層，無feel就唔會記得我中意咩，
去邊都會買我中意嘅手信比我，我生日都特登陪我過，平安夜都同我出街。
到今時今日仲戴著我以前送比佢嘅心形手鏈。話無feel我真係唔信。
我呢幾日好想將心底嘅說話同佢講，同佢講我意識到自己嘅問題，知道自己以前有幾不知所謂。
同佢講一句最真誠嘅對唔住。我好想比佢知我會改變，唔會再好似以前嘅懦弱，想重頭黎過。
我深信佢仲戴著我送比佢嘅手鏈即係仲有feel。
但我唔知應該用WhatsApp講好定係約佢出黎好，
事關我應承左佢之後會送返生日禮物比佢，應該會約到佢。但又唔想再拖太耐。
我真係好想返轉頭，man神可唔可以幫下我，我唔想因爲我嘅懦弱無左一個咁了解，我咁鐘意嘅女仔。
所以，急需你嘅意見。🙏🙏🙏🙏
有少少長，但都感謝你睇晒同幫我諗下計仔點樣追返呢個對我好重要嘅女仔。
Thanks a lot.
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From the first few paragraphs, every behavior you did is what FRIENDS do.
You were in the friendzone, until you 表白 and killed the friendship.
Plus you u said “追返呢個對我好重要嘅女仔”, this mindset is what kills everything.
In short, your current emotional state and neediness behaviors will ruin every relationship you try to have.
You are NOT ready yet.
#1 Friendzoned
#2 Love VS Neediness
#3 You improve FOR YOURSELF, not for HER!
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