Yo！我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊。
現代約會最大嘅問題係乜嘢呢？
Tip：It’s in most people’s pockets…
Problem = smartphones = distraction
No one is paying fucking attention to each other!
大部分人都忘記咗咩叫做約會，咩叫做hang out，咩叫做約出嚟玩
Presence = Giving complete, and undivided attention to someone else
It’s like a modern date is no longer between two people, 200 people!!!
點解會發生呢啲咁唔尊重嘅情況呢？
=》Not enough men are telling their dates to put their phone away！
And today I’m going to teach you how a real man tells a woman to put her phone away in a polite and powerful way
#1 Easiest way = to tell her how you feel…
『喂喂，我覺得我同你傾偈嘅時候，你喺度玩電話，我唔係幾鍾意呢種感覺。』
＃2 狂用電話已經喺一種喺社會氾濫嘅傳染病，所以好多人都唔知道自己中毒幾深。
咁所以如果需要嘅話，你可以用另一句同佢講話：
『啊，Kary啊，其實同你相處都幾舒服嘅，但係我唔太鐘意我哋出嚟嘅時候，同你其他朋友一齊分享我嘅時間囉。』
以上一句係有禮貌並且強勁嘅句子，
你係話畀佢知雖然你對佢有興趣，但係如果佢唔能夠集中嘅話你都唔會接受。
＃3 最後第三句，亦都係有禮貌地最後警告佢嘅說話，就係同佢講：
『啊，你咁忙，不如等你下次熄咗個電話，我哋先再繼續啦。』
Boom！
呢句句子喺好勁嘅最後通牒，係話畀佢知雖然你對佢有興趣，
但係如果佢唔能夠畀full attention你嘅話，你係可以隨時walk away走人，因為你係知道自己嘅時間有幾珍貴。
＃4 最後想講嘅就係：我以上教你嘅說話雖然係好有威力，
但係如果巴打你唔能夠以身作則，自己又喺度玩電話嘅話，咁樣人哋唔尊重你都係抵你死！
咁所以請你記住要lead by example，
要記住你自己首先唔好玩電話，你先至有資格邀請其他人唔好咁做。
鍾意今集嘅話就like，留言俾我知並且share比你值得分享嘅朋友睇啦， 下集再見你！