Hey bro, do you find escalation scary? Do you find it hard to use words or physical touch to escalate on a girl and you just can’t find the balance on when you should do those things?
While various degrees of physical contact are crucial, many men forget that there is another way to escalate: 將感覺／氣氛升溫.
#1 將感覺／氣氛升溫 means you don’t have to worry about using words to compliment girls OR using touch to escalate on her.
Instead, you shift the TONE of the interactions from social/friendly/fun to more seductive/nervous.
#2 E.g. 誘惑嘅氣氛 can be sth like you’re starting to SLOW everything down (blink, words, the way you move your hand/body), and then you hold a slow gaze at her for a few seconds, smirk for a second, and then looking away.
E.g You slowly move closer to her, talk more slowly calmly quietly beside her ears, and sometimes shut up and bask in that silence.
#3 So 將感覺／氣氛升溫 means you are creating sexual tension at the ENERGETIC LEVEL, instead of the language/physical touch level, and that is also a very powerful way to seduce.
If the girl is also interested in you, she will want you to release that non-verbal tension later. One way you can do is to start touching her hand or sideways because this first touch can create strong physical connection.
#4 Anyway, what I shared above is some more advanced skill you can use to attract girls.
When you know how to escalate with your eye contact, silence, proximity and the VIBE you’re creating, sometimes you really don’t need to SAY or DO anything to get girls horny.
If you want to learn more exactly how to do so, feel free to send an email to support@manthefvckup.com to ask more details about our MTFU Insider program,
where I constantly create new trainings to teach our advanced bros on similar attraction/escalation topics. So if you’re interested in improving your social/dating/sex/relationship life, feel free to email us and let us know.