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我呢,最近想認識一個女仔,但係我係果種唔識開口果種人,因為自己無乜異性緣,同其他女仔都未試過有單獨傾計既時間,每次都係一大班人咁樣傾。
但係我睇完你既影片,我都無法運用自如,更加用唔出泥,我仲讀緊書,而我真係好想變成一個成功既人。
希望你可以解答我點樣可以開口同人傾計同點保持關係。
你既影片好多時我感覺都係用係酒吧到,希望可以睇更多關於係非club既場合認識異性既影片,加油呀,我支持你 – Sky
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#1 Bro, stop giving excuses that I am “not that kind of guy” or “無乜異性緣”, you are reinforcing an OLD IDENTITY that is not serving you.
I am not teaching you any techniques now because all the talking techniques are already taught in past videos.
But let me ask you a deeper question: You said you want to become successful, but do you think a successful people will operate at such VICTIM mentality saying “oh, i never met girls in the past, I am not the kind of guy who speaks?”
If you want to be successful at anything, stop living in your OLD FUCKING STORY of what you failed, OR blaming your past.
MTFU and do something, I have already taught you: The best way to talk to people is to use your OBSERVATIONAL SKILL, use the environment, or use the CONTEXT of the situation and say something that is RELEVANT to the situation and RELEVANT to her.
E.g. I was in a gym, I saw a girl doing squat with her DB next to me.
Even though her form is good, I later talked to her “Hey, I just saw you doing squat over there. But your knees are a bit too forward, that might hurt your leg, be careful.”
BOOM, easy opener. She looked at me and giggled.
#2 You don’t like hanging out in bars? Great, I don’t pick up in bars much as well.
But are you actively doing ACTIVITIES you love?
How many times have I suggested you all to explore FUN SOCIAL activities for yourself?
When will you understand that your current lack of social activities is hurting your happiness and fulfillment as a man?
I bet you haven’t done shit bro. So what are you to complain?
How many videos have you watched? How much ACTION have you taken?
MTFU bro, I appreciate your support and that’s why I am being HONEST and having some tough love on you.
If you arent willing to help yourself, I can’t fvcking help you as well. Got i
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最近去朋友派對,同新認識的女性朋友傾計,不過幾個都好冷淡,
因為對方冷淡所以我都冇抄到對方電話,費事抄d冷電話返來,點解決呢個問題
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#1 60/40, 70/30 Interaction Rule -> You aren’t the only one in the interaction!
Pay attention to females’ response, be AWARE if they are OPEN at all.
#2 You actually did well, nothing wrong with it, are you enjoying yourself though?
If you are not having FUN and enjoying these kinds of social environment, it’s counterproductive to your success.
#3 Success is in the ACTION, not the OUTCOME of it.
Keep trying, keep experimenting, keep increasing your sample size before you draw conclusions.