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Yo manson！Ken again….我放棄左之前我講過fdzone左我既女仔，再次展開新既精彩旅程…
突然有個fd搵返我，叫我陪佢行mk。我嗰日好chill，諗到咩就講咩，吾覺意可能attract到佢…（佢都算係高質野）。
佢之後去左個trip，期間都有flirt我…完左之後，仲話想我接機..話想見我…係巴士個時仲借我膊頭呢用..so sweet
正當我考慮接吾接受佢既時候….之後我可能關心得佢多左…佢feel到啲野.就無啦reject我。WTF？
我呆左陣…問佢show interest既動作點解，佢話有小小姐…不過我之後都解釋返俾佢聽，Care not equal to love…(畢竟confess=lose everything)
但係我覺得幾可惜，所以想問下man神，呢段感情仲有冇possibility…
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In short, you have fallen into FZ without you realizing it.
＃1 You thought you were chilling, saying whatever you like and attracting her.
But pay attention to the CONTEXT, you said『突然有個fd搵返我，叫我陪佢行mk。』, this already subcommunicated that SHE treats you as a friend.
You 陪佢行mk means that you’re already investing your TIME/ENERGY doing friends stuff.
To her, you are SO EASY to get you to do stuff with her, and that’s NOT a sexy attractive trait man.
#2 『想我接機..話想見我…係巴士個時仲借我膊頭呢用..so sweet』
-> Another compliance test. Again, you’re saying YES too easily and overinvesting your time to do these “sweet boyfriend behaviors”before you two had sexual contacts.
-> You thought would lead you to bf/gf, but in fact too much sweetness/ niceness BEFORE you two are bf/gf often won’t produce the results you want.
#3 『之後我可能關心得佢多左…佢feel到啲野.就無啦reject我。』
-> See? You already said you CARE about her too much, which isn’t something you should do BEFORE you enter a relationship.
-> “Care not equal to love”: What she really means is that “she likes the attention/caring/niceness you give to her,
but she can’t FEEL AROUSED SEXUALLY,
she can’t feel the BADNESS/EDGINESS/MYSTERIOUSNESS from you.
She can’t feel your STRENGTH to say no to her and do stuff you like.
-> She can’t feel the SEXUAL TENSION from you challenging/teasing/making fun of her. That’s why she can’t “feel aroused enough”to convince herself logically she is falling in love with you.
-> Learn from this and move on.