[性知識] 男士做愛時三大錯誤！第二點最常見…
#1 去得太快
– Problem of fast sex is that you MISS the DETAILS.
– It’s like you’re using 2X speed to listen to Ed Sheeran’s Perfect
– The slower you play, the more you digest it, the more you can FEEL each other
– So stop just pounding away and try to get off
#2 太過focus去令自己高潮
– Sex is not an itch that you just have to scratch
– When you are hungry, you don’t go to a French Restaurant and stuff food in your mouth
– When you try to get orgasm too fast, then there’s no time to savor experience
– You have wanted sex for so long, why the FUCK are you rushing through the experience? Otherwise, the experience ENDS before you know it.
#3 太過想令到女人高潮
– Most men feel the need to get women off e.g. squirt/big explosion
– This is because that makes a lot of men feel POWERFUL
– However, if you focus on that outcome too much and NOT being present to her sensations…even though you hear her moan, many women will FAKE their orgasms even when they don’t enjoy the sex.
– Many women just don’t want to hurt your ego when your sex sucks OR they just don’t want to bother telling you how WRONG you’re doing.
So these are the mistakes: going too fast, focusing on yourself too much, and trying too hard to get her to explode.
Takeaway #1: Slow down 3-5 times at your current pace,
#2 Engage in communication during sex.
#3 Stop emphasizing your orgasm and don’t just focus on hers.