Yo! 歡迎嚟到新一集嘅ManTheFvckUp,喚醒你嘅雄性力量,征服你嘅戀愛世界。!
#1 任何關係/relationship都會有一方係做主導,做leader。
#2 當雙方關係嘅power dynamics/力量動態變得含糊,就會出現『權力鬥爭』嘅現象,雙方會compete做大佬。
#3 女人同你爭權 = 大家對邊個in charge存在疑問
#4 當你清晰地establish value,誰是leader 將會是清晰可見,毋須拗撬。
#5 點處理?Always be emotionally unreactive,因為太好笑,無需要同3歲小朋友嗌霎,一笑置之。
#6 如果囡囡繼續與你對抗,PUNISH her by removing yourself and your attention。你係充滿價值嘅gem,能夠花時間同你一齊係佢嘅榮幸,係一種獎勵,so you must punish her for her BAD BEHAVIORS。
Girls draw their emotions EXTERNALLY while guys draw theirs from within.
#7 Until she maliciously/充滿敵意地超越你嘅界線,you are allowed to YELL at her,look right into her eyes and give a FINAL WARNING。
#8 If she is CRAZY or STUPID, REMOVE such toxic from your life。
#9 大部分情況,如果你有一開頭小心地篩選女人,小心地觀察佢嘅內在性格特質,you won’t encounter such situation.
#10 因為作為leader領袖嘅責任,你係需要自信地帶領你嘅子民/追隨者,協助佢哋變得更加有力量,變得更加優秀,變成更好嘅領袖。
而你自己成長得越多,進化成為一個更強大嘅雄性領袖/masculine leader,女人或其他人都會更少許地去同你爭權。
希望今集幫到你!