If you are like me, my upbringing & social conditioning taught me that “women are the romantic creature seeking LOVE and they fall in LOVE easily with a man.
VS Men are the seed-spreading non-committers, so they all just want to have sex and can detach themselves immediately”…
If you also believe that, then you are fvcked by these lies!
#1 According to a research by psychologist Marissa A. Harrison in 2010 “Women and Men in Love: Who Really Feels It and Says It First?
-> Truth: Men actually fall in love FASTER at the beginning, but fall out of love slower after a break up THAN women!
-> “Women may not be the greater “fools for love” that society assumes and are consistent with the notion that a pragmatic and cautious view of love has adaptive significance for women.”
Why? Because women are evolutionarily more cautious, they have more to lose reproductively by committing to a wrong man.
Women have finite # of eggs, but men can produce millions of sperm daily.
#2 And according to Neil Lamont, a London based psychologist: People generally tend to see men as more pragmatic or even commitment-avoidant. “[But] meaningful relating is as important to men as it is to women.
And while societal and cultural norms may have dictated that men should be strong and resilient, the reality is [that] a well-lived life for men will typically involve deep and meaningful, loving relationships.”
#3 Caveat: Women have short term & long term mating strategies, so while they may not “fall in love” with a guy , they may still wanna fvck an Alpha hot guy.
More to come 😉