女人發癲時，如何安全過渡？[男女感情]
Last time we talked about why women can be “crazy”, today let’s talk about what to do when she’s in that emotional state.
#1 Accept her behavior first
The first thing you must train yourself doing (I know it’s hard) is to STOP JUDGING HER negatively.
Because if you judge her with your default logical linear mind, say that she is such a fvcked up girl, OR she is crazy,
OR she has sth wrong with her, you have already failed a woman’s shittest.
Just like we said last time, if you can first approve & STAY with her when she’s emotional,
you are NOT TRUSTWORTHY enough in the bedroom for her to also 100% let go during orgasm.
So let go of “what she should do as a rational human being”, observe this emotional storm with your MASCULINE PRESENCE.
#2 Stay grounded like a rock in YOUR OWN REALITY/frame.
Feminine women are like the ocean, their emotions are always ups & downs like waves and always based on moment-to-moment reality.
But a masculine man is more like a rock – solid, grounded, calm, centered.
So when a woman becomes emotional, it’s YOUR JOB as a man to STAY GROUNDED in your reality.
STOP fighting her emotions or trying to solve her problems with your logic, what she needs is YOU FEELING WHAT SHE FEEL!
It’s a challenge to your MASCULINITY to see if you can maintain your rock solid reality you want to live in, so can you do that?
#3 Ground her Back To Reality
Once she has expressed her emotions like a storm, you can bring her back to the TRUTH of reality by saying sth like,
“Yes honey, I can feel that you feel XYZ about this. It is [feel] that XXX. I actually have a few observations/thoughts about this situation, are you ready to listen to that?”
This way you are not just showing your love & approval of her, but you’re standing on your masculine ground to offer your perspective.
Even if she doesn’t agree with you, she still respect you because you’re not a doormat who is too afraid to express your own thoughts.