Do you feel frustrated that sometimes you think women say sth but actually they mean an entirely different things?
Are you angry that women mostly don’t tell you upfront what they want from you and keep letting you guessing?
Are you tired that you have to use so much energy and effort to carefully observe her behavior to find out the true meaning of her communication?
Well brother… that’s the reality of the difference between men and women.
#1 Men’ communication: Straightforward, efficient, exchange facts & information, focuses on the CONTENT, say what they mean and mean what they say, logically/rationally analyze and solve problems just like what I’m doing for you here.
Women’ communication: It’s more about sharing FEELINGS, it’s like a kids-talk driven by emotions, it’s about getting ATTENTION, so on the surface the words/content are more dumb/confusing/random/pointless.
#2 Why do we have such difference?
It’s because male and female brains are wired differently according to brain scan.
They did 1,000 brain scans -> Greater connectivity between the left and right sides of the brain in women, while the connections in men were mostly confined to individual hemispheres, and connections were typically stronger between the front and back regions.
Meaning: men’s brains apparently wired more for perception and co-ordinated actions i.e. direction, and women’s for social skills/memory, making them better equipped for multitasking.
So communication to men, content > context but to women, context > content.
Men find women’s form of communication illogical, pointless, waste-of-time, evil and hard-to-get! Women find men’s form of communication BORING.
#3 Now that you understand this: What does it mean when women are hot and cold to you?
Well, her behaviors already have told you.
She is NOT that interested in you anymore – WHETHER it’s because you’re too boring because you wait too long building rapport like a frd OR you’ve become needy & approval-seeking beta male who can’t get her wet.
Women use body languages, subtle facial expressions/look, hand gestures, innuendos, appearance to communicate with her girls, they don’t have to say it out loud to understand what each other mean.
#4 But most men don’t get what women mean by their words, so I recommend you to always observe women’ behaviors as better indicators of what they actually mean.
So yeah, she is NOT interested in you when her behaviors turn cold … because if women want to fvck you, they will always find excuses to fvck you.
For now, the best thing to do is NOT chasing for more, but to cut your attention, cut that loss, focus on other girls.
You can only win when she pursues you back, otherwise you need her more than she needs you and that means you become her bitch when you stay in such relationship!
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