Last week we talked about the importance of needing a woman less than she needs you and why your faithfulness won’t generate her sexual desire to you.
Today, let’s talk about one of the most toxic beliefs all beta males have: The she-is-my-only-true-love syndrome真命天女症.
#1 Most guys try to attract girls on a 1-2-1 basis.
They use ALL of their time/effort/energy/resources to loyally and patiently WAIT for the PERFECT condition to meet his targeted girl,
WAIT for the PERFECT timing to “know each other well enough”,
and WAIT for the PERFECT day to “finally confess his undying love to her” as if his attraction is something shameful not to be admitted in Day 1.
Sometimes this means a few weeks, but many even waits for YEARS to finally have the courage to get the girl.
So if you are using this 1-2-1 strategy to get girls, you have 真命天女症 because
1) You mistakenly think she is the ONLY compatible woman in the world
2) You mistakenly believe that all these WAITING means romance to her
3) You mistakenly waste your fucking life & sacrifice yourself to hopefully one day the girl “will finally see your goodness” and choose you after she has fucked enough Alphas.
Such default beta way of getting girls is due to DECADES of social conditioning from your parents, TV programs + movies since the 80s, song lyrics, church and religion, Alpha shaming by the newspaper & magazines, and the political correct governmental structure.
#2 So if you truly want to get rid of your Beta mindset, how could you do so?
The super easy behavioral change you must adopt is to change your 1-2-1 strategy to 1-2-many strategy.
Meaning: Instead of fishing with just one fish hook and line, you cast a fucking net like a fisherman and SELECT only the best quality fishes and throw away those who don’t qualify!
#3 Now, as a default beta, you probably have concerns like “What if she thinks I am a 狗公？What if she doesn’t like the fact that I have lots of women? What if she wants my complete devotion to her?”
Well, apart from the obvious fact that “What girls say they want usually don’t reflect what they want in behaviors”, there are of course ways to handle those situations which is out of scope in this video.
(If you want to know more skills on how to do so, go to www.manthefvckup.com/7dayfreecourse to study it. It’s FREE.)
＃4 The point is: Once a woman has become your ONLY SOURCE of sex/intimacy/love, her attraction towards you will definitely decrease because she realizes that she has no more competition from other women anymore.
If you want a woman to be attracted to you for decades, she MUST conclude from your behaviors that “You ALWAYS have other options,
OR You always have the ability to walk away IF she doesn’t behave well and GET other girls.”
Again, women always want a guy that other women want.
If you still maintain a 1-2-1 mindset or strategy to get girls, you are DOOMED to compete with other 80% of majority beta males for the bottom 20% of ugly bitches.
So tell me, what strategy are you using to get girls from today’s onwards?