你付出很多,但女人只當你朋友?有原因!

Yo!我喺MTFU嘅Man神啊,激發男士雄性力量,感受更多愛與激情!

Q: 比我介紹一下,我今年dse畢業,成績普通,只係炒咗一科中文,所以入唔到u。

 

有一位女仔,佢細我一年,幾靚,同一間小學,但我地唔同級,本身大家關係好疏離,後來大家上咗唔同既中學,我中四降班,所以同個女仔同一時間考Dse ,

 

到五月頭大家考完果陣,我想識佢係因為我自己無性方面的追求,我明白女仔係要搵一個比到安全感嘅男仔,我唔想咁好嘅女仔比其他男仔遭達。

=> Stop having so much negative association with sex.

 

Attractive men are HOT GUYS who enjoy sex with women, NOT a fvckless sexless monk.

 

The word “safe” does not mean girls don’t want sex or just platonic relationships.

 

之所以我考完試先whatsapp佢,係因為佢話學業重要,佢中學係女校,到而家無男朋友,

 

我比咗signal佢,話我係非常專一嘅,而人生目標我都清楚曬,當我下定決心同個女仔whatsapp,佢都會回下d emoji果d,

 

最後我有表白,佢好似唔明咁,

=> Of course she doesn’t understand.

 

Because she thinks you are just a platonic sexless harmless gay nice sheep who is afraid to express your natural desires as a sexual human being!!!

 

就是咁一直都是whatsapp嘅形式互相傾咗4-5個月,就黎佢生日,

 

我本身係一個肥仔,我未試過同佢出街,所以我付出好多,我都想佢生日果陣約佢,所以我不段減肥,

 

到底我應該繼續還是停止這段關係呢?

=> over overinvestment will make you justify your behaviors, back-rationalize that you “really really love her”

 

= she doesn’t need to do shit to earn your respect or attention.

 

= lack of attraction

 

=> Your choice to continue as a friend, (since she can’t feel any sexual tension)

 

OR cut this unsatisfying relationship and move on for a few years.